As we learn we mature. Many people "abide in Christ" and never learn much of anything. I've meet 50 year old babies in Christ. We mature when "Christ is formed" in us. Understanding... get understanding in what we learn.
Gal 4:19 My little children, of whom I travail in birth again until Christ be formed in you,
Conformity......
Absolutely!
We must consider ourselves dead. The old man isn't dead. That is another reckoning. The more I mature, the more I see myself as lacking at so many levels.
In this, we are very similar. I share many thoughts with Calvinism. I'm probably 90 to 95 percent in Total Depravity but I construct it entirely different than Calvinism does. We are willing participants in the pleasures of the flesh. So much so, it is not an indication of inclination.
In my view, the influence of sinful men in our lives can not be overstated. This "feeding" ruins many a man and is primary cause for sin in most of our lives. However, we are definitely greatly influenced by our peccable nature.
If you will look at it from a "peccable vs impeccable" perspective. I believe you will change. Adam was peccable. Incomplete and immature ( though He was the best of us all relative to prior knowledge).
Completion wasn't about Adam falling. He never was complete to start with. The target for "Let us make man in our own image" wasn't Adam. It was Jesus Christ. That requires willing conformity. The "Willing Servant".