So salvation is not by grace- undeserved gift from God ?
Of course it's by grace THROUGH OUR FAITH - none of us deserved it, nor could we have ever saved ourselves - what? are we going to die on the cross to save ourselves? Even if we could do that, we are not without sin like Jesus was, so it would be in vain. But God decided that all men must OBEY HIM in REPENTANCE and EXERCISING OUR FAITH in order to RECEIVE (NOT DESERVE) THAT SALVATION.
So after we're saved, justified, born again, are we not supposed to CONTINUE TO OBEY, REPENT OF CURRENT SINS, AND EXERCISE OUR FAITH???
Yes, in fact we're COMMANDED TO and we're given grave warnings if we don't. It doesn't really matter whether we like the grave warnings or not, THEY ARE STILL THERE, AND WE MUST HEED THEM.
Don't be silly. We're not our own Saviors- HE ALREADY DID THE HEAVY LIFTING, WHICH WE COULD NEVER DO, ONLY HE TOOK THE SINS OF THE WORLD, INCLUDING OURS TO THE CROSS.
But yes, NOW, after being born again and justified, we DO have an OBLIGATION to do WHAT ONLY WE CAN DO (HE'S NOT GOING TO DO IT FOR US) -Abide in Him, walk in the Spirit, obey Him, suffer with Him, persevere in hope, continue to love God and our brother, set our mind on the things of the Spirit, etc.
What, do you think that we MADE UP the possibility of losing your salvation? You'll have to talk to God about that. He's the one who said that if the branches don't abide in the vine, they'll be burned. He's the one who said that if you don't continue in His kindness, then you too would be cut off. He's the one who warned us of having an evil, unbelieving heart, in falling away from the living God. He's the one who said that if we deny Him, He would deny us.
You can call it anything you want: being unborn again, temporary adoption, removing the down payment of our inheritance, lying, not keeping His promises, etc. - but of course, no matter what you call it, you would be wrong. GOD ALWAYS KEEPS HIS WORD AND HIS PROMISES. IT'S JUST THAT YOU DON'T WANT TO ACKNOWLEDGE THE CONDITIONS HE PUT IN PLACE TO RECEIVE THOSE PROMISES. LET GOD BE FOUND TRUE, AND EVERY MAN BE FOUND A LIAR.
So we must do something to deserve to be saved and kept saved ?
God saves us but its up to us to keep ourselves saved ?
So both God and man are Saviors of themselves ?
God saves us by giving us His spirit but then we must keep ourselves saved or God takes away His spirit ?
Adoption is temporal ? and the downpayment of our future inheritance the indwelling Holy Spirit ( our guarantee ) as Paul puts it in Ephesians 1 is not true ?