The statement that RT made was, "If you want to take credit for repenting and believing of your own (fallen) free will, be my guest. God will not share the glory."
My reply to you when you got involved is, "Someone has to repent and believe. Is it God or man? It matters not if one is regenerate, for it is man who must do it to be saved. Does this mean you are sharing in God’s glory? RT must think so."
So, let me ask you since you've agreed that man must be the one who willfully repents and believes. Does this mean you are sharing in God's glory? Why or why not?
John 1 is about establishing the fact that salvation is not outside of receiving and believing in Jesus Christ, and to those who do receive and believe, He gives them the right to become children of God. Salvation is not outside of this belief such as by depending upon your bloodline, or by being adopted into a Jewish family, or by a person who thinks that God will save them outside of believing in Jesus Christ. "But to all who did receive him, who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God, who were born, not of blood nor of the will of the flesh nor of the will of man, but of God." 1:12-13)
I don't argue that repentance and faith are gifts from God. I argue against the misuse of thinking man's will is not involved to make use of them.
I don't disagree that we all were dead in sins and "God, being rich in mercy, because of the great love with which he loved us, even when we were dead in our trespasses, made us alive together with Christ—by grace you have been saved".
That has zero to do with being regenerated first and then repenting and believing. The Apostle Paul is exclaiming the wonderful grace of God that saves us by His grace instead of by our works (vs 8-9).
Here you stated, "The Spirit of God does not repent and believe for the man. The Spirit of God takes up residence, at God's own timing, in the creature to whom God has chosen before the foundation of the world to give mercy. This transforms the person from death to life, so it is called being "born from above", or 'born again'; in theological terms, 'regeneration'."
To me, it sounds like you were saying the "Spirit of God takes up residence" in an unrepentant unbeliever and transforms them into a repentant believer. This of course we know is not biblical regeneration.
Biblical regeneration is receiving and believing in Jesus Christ and calling out to Him to be saved. Then one is given the right to become a child of God, receiving the Spirit of adoption and new life united-one with God (the washing of regeneration and renewal of the Holy Spirit).
Like I preach and teach about being born anew from God, you know when someone is living in your house and others know it too. If you have the Spirit of God living within you, you know it and others do too. The inward change of life is so dramatic externally that others take notice.
The gospel message offers a new glorious life personally united with God that is pleasing to both Him and the hearer. And for me like all others, this only happened after I repented and believed in Jesus Christ and called out to be saved. And this is the pattern that is biblical. One hears and then believes the gospel message of God's forgiveness and reconciliation for sin, everlasting righteousness, and new and powerful life of God's Spirit living in and with you forever, with death having no hold.
Being born anew-given a new life of the Spirit of God living inside-is a part of the gospel message-one must be born again. I fully expected Him to take up residence in me and transform my life in some fashion. I just didn't realize the depth of that glorious transformation.
God Bless