FreeInChrist
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I simply cannot explain it to you.Yes, I know the verses very well but it still doesn't make my husband and I ONE human being! Yes, one in purpose and united in marriage but still two individual human beings, a male and a female.
He is my head - his head is Christ - Christ head is God - Which 'who' or 'what' is this 'God' who is the head of Christ? I didn't see this answered.
Similar to the Godhead? If I am one in purpose with my husband yet we are still two individual human beings then wouldn't that also be applicable to the Godhead? We would have God the Father, God the Son, and God the Holy Spirit one in purpose yet three individual, separate and distinct, beings which seems to me to equal 3 gods.
Yeah, ehad (pronounced ekh-awd) means 1) the ONE (number); 2) each, every; 3) a certain; 4) an (indefinite article); 5) only, once, once for all; 6) one . . another, the one....the other, one after another, one by one; 7) first; 8) eleven (in combination, eleventh (ordinal) Although this is not mentioned in the cefinition for ehad I knew it would need to be addressed ------ It can mean one COLLECTIVELY as in one herd, one cluster of grapes, one body [heis - numeral one; one body(of Christ with many members).
You have to believe to understand.
3 times in scriptures they mentioned the single flesh which does not discount your husband as being your head at all, any more then YHWH our Holy Father being the head over Christ Jesus and the Holy Spirit. But I see the divinity there. I just simply can not explain it .... it is a matter of my faith.
How can I explain this better.
You and your husband each have certain rolls in your marriage. But you were bound together under God. Your flesh is not the same but God sees you as one. It is a spiritual oneness . To say you are one flesh with your husband rather refers to a deep, spiritual bond between you that emphasizes unity and emotional connection and intimacy that God intends for married couples far beyond physical ties.
And this is exactly how I see the Trinity.... in a bond so intricately woven that will never part.
If you do not want to believe in the Trinity, fine.