Wasn't my pick. I'm just saying that you're not including all the context.
My pick is consistent. Has been for many many years. The context of Esau and Jacob is more than just love and hate. It is an allegory relative to choice of Christ over any other. In this context, it is perfectly compatible with what
@civic said.
God loved Christ MORE than he loved humanity.
You should realize by now that such references are more complicated and have applications that extend beyond the immediate English Definition of a particular definition. This is why Theology is so very important. It is the systematic application of all revelation expressed in meaningful doctrine.
The arguments you make and others make relative to Calvinism is NEVER more than 1 plus 2 deep. Never. Always seeking to oversimplify the complex so as to avoid details.
God does not hate without first loving.
God loved Satan. Satan's rejection of God ultimately leads to the hatred of God in damnation. There is never hate from God without first loving. God saw everything and said it was good. Satan was once even good.
For you to then insist that there is never any love for God's creation is absolute nonsense. You know it is. However, your view of yourself requires you to believe your own imagination rather than the truth.
We all do it. Some worse than others. It is a bitter pill for most people to see themselves for what they a really are. I had to face it myself.
You've found some doctrine revolving around hatred that gives a certain sense of meaning.... Since you believe "you've been chosen" and others haven't.
Just admit it. It gives meaning to you to believe that you've been chosen and others just like you or worse didn't. Calvinist equals = "there must be something good about me"
Look. I don't want to make a enemy of you again. I'll leave you alone for a while. I do care about you brother. I mean that.