Still missing it.
Look at it this way then...
How can God create all and give everyone a fair chance to be saved?
We need to think with what we learned from Jesus' example when coming to earth .... (Philippians 2:6-8)
Who, being in very nature God,
did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage;
rather, he made himself nothing
by taking the very nature of a servant,
being made in human likeness.
And being found in appearance as a man,
he humbled himself
by becoming obedient to death—
even death on a cross!