They like to forget that when it becomes inconvenient and have their cake and eat it tooGod tied Adam’s arm if you are true to your theology. Thereby effecting our condition outside of our own volition. Then, according to Calvinism, God blames us, for not being able to do what he commands.
When God decrees from before the foundation of the world “whatsoever comes to pass” he has made the determining choice, which makes our will irrelevant, thus, not independent of God’s direct control, which means it is not free in any way.
Doug