@Jim
Take a careful look in Scripture for more proof:
1. Luke 24:47-49 tells us that Jesus told the disciples to wait in Jerusalem for the promise of the Spirit. The Spirit would give them power to be Christ's witnesses. The point and reason for being empowered was to serve Jesus, not to bring attention and glory to themselves.
2. Acts 1:4-5 tells us that the early Christians needed verification that Jesus was really alive and victorious over death, so God caused His Spirit's inaugural commission to come first upon the disciples in His holy city of Jerusalem. Pentecost was the event of the first introduction of the permanence of the Holy Spirit for all Believers. It also took place to give them further instructions about serving in the kingdom of God. This was their baptism by the Holy Spirit as promised by John the Baptist and the OT prophets (Judges 3:10; 1 Sam. 10:6; Psalm 51:11; Isa. 11:2; 63:10-11; Luke 3:3-6). It refers to the coming and staying of the Spirit in Believer's lives. No longer do we have Him coming and going; we have Him continually!
3. Acts 2:1-12 tells us that a rush of a mighty wind filled all the house. The disciples were all gathered together. They were all filled with the Holy Spirit and began to speak in 'other tongues,' that is, languages they did not previously know, so that the other people around could understand what was being said (Ex. 3:2; 13:21; 24:17; 40:38; 1 Kings 19:11-13; Ez. 37:9-13; John 3:8).
4. Acts 2:13-21 tells us that the early Christians were mocked because they appeared to be in a drunken frenzy. Peter, in verse 14, gives an explanation of what was happening, that it was the baptism with the Holy Spirit, by quoting Joel (Joel 2:28-32; 3:1-5).
5. People quickly point out 1 Corinthians 12:13 as their proof that there is a separation between conversion and receiving the Spirit, but this is not the same thing as what is happening here in Acts. The 1 Corinthians passage refers to the unity of all Believers, through circumcision that unites them to Christ. This includes us today, as we are part of His body and with Him for eternal life.
6. Acts 1 and 2 do not tell us that the Baptism of the Spirit is a conversion or some kind of rebirth (John 13:10; 15:3; Romans 8:9; John 3:5)! Rather, the focus was on the promise in Joel 2. The central point, reason, and purpose for us to have the Spirit working in us, is to be empowered for ministry. That is what is described as a FILLING. This is always associated, in Scripture, with extraordinary power for ministry, doing something to further the Gospel and cause of Christ. It is never meant to draw attention to us or to put on some kind of show!
The popular understanding of being Baptized with the Holy Spirit is when a person, who is already a Believer, receives the Spirit again, or for the first time. However, this view is not normative in Scripture. We can be given more extraordinary spiritual power intended for Christ-centered ministry that exalts Him, and not ourselves. But, we receive the Spirit when we proclaim our faith in Christ as Lord. So, when you feel there might be more of Him working in you, Great! Praise God! However, He does not come upon you more. Rather, you become more aware and yielding to Him. You are more aware of His presence in you as you become more mature in the faith through the Spiritual disciplines of Scripture, worship, and prayer. Furthermore, there is ample Scriptural evidence that He can give you extra spiritual gifts and more power for specific tasks as you grow and become more faithful. However, remember, these are to glorify Him and are not part of your salvation or for your personal edification. When you become a Christian, you already have the Spirit (unless you were in the early church and He had not come yet; if so, you would be very old today!)
More Scriptures on which to meditate:
1. Acts 4:8 -13 tells us that Peter is filled with the Holy Spirit to the point that the Jewish leaders were amazed at his boldness.
2. Acts 4:31 tells us that the disciples were praying, and the place where they were was shaken, and they were all filled with the Holy Spirit. The result was, they spoke the Word of God with extraordinary boldness and Christ-exalting power, so that others could understand, each in his own language. Tongues are never to give you, or even your church, glory; their purpose is to allow others to understand, and the occurrences are very rare (the real ones that is; many people fake it!). There is no other purpose in Scripture for tongues except for a form of special prayer between the Spirit in you and God, that you do not utter by yourself (Acts 2:3-11; 10:46; 19:6; 1 Cor. 12:10; 12:28-30; 13:1; 8; 14:5 -6; 14:18-14:23; 14:39; Rev. 16:10)!
3. Acts 6 tells us how Stephen, who was full of faith and the Holy Spirit, manifested power, and did signs and wonders among the people. We also see that when he spoke, the leaders could not resist his wisdom from the Spirit. He was an example of having a fullness that gave him extraordinary power for glorifying Christ. Notice Stephen was not glorified; he even died!
4. Acts 9:17-22; 13:9-11 tells us that Paul was filled with the Holy Spirit at his conversion, and immediately spoke to proclaim Christ as Lord with such astonishing power, that, later, the Jews of Damascus were confounded, because before this, Paul had them imprisoned and killed. A few years later, Paul was filled again with the Holy Spirit when he spoke to Elymas, the magician, and God gave him the power to blind Elymas.
5. Acts 11:24 tells us that Barnabas was filled with the Holy Spirit and faith, and many people responded and were added to the Lord.
As we can see clearly from Scripture, being baptized with the Holy Spirit refers to our receiving the Spirit when we become a Christian. In addition, it can refer to extra empowerment for ministry, not a second work of Grace. For the first few Christians in Acts, the Spirit was not given yet, so they received Him later. That does not mean we do the same, since He was given over 2000 years ago. Also, the Spirit comes upon the Believer when a committed Christian is filled with the Holy Spirit, thus receives extraordinary power for ministry that witnesses to and glorifies Christ as Lord to all the nations (Luke 24:49). As you can see, it can easily be confusing if you do not read the passages in their context. Many Bible teachers say the Spirit comes later for us, too, thus causing confusion of the issue.
The Spirit is never used in Scripture as a tool to glorify self or to grandstand! His purpose is for ministry, and empowering the mature Believer with more ability to get the job done. Not all Christians will receive His extra empowerment, nor does it last continually. These extra empowerments have nothing to do with our saving faith. Christians who receive them are no better that those who do not, as we all are His children. We all have the same Spirit working in us, unifying, and helping us to be sanctified.
The Pentecostal understanding of the baptism of the Holy Spirit as a definite second experience, after conversion, that contributes to, or is our saving Grace (depending on whom you follow), is not normative for us since Pentecost. They further say that we are to seek it, and enjoy it as a blessing and anointing, manifested by speaking in tongues. This understanding is not necessarily so either (Acts 8:14-17)! Yes, this is found in Scripture, but always remember the context. If you grew up Pentecostal or are part of a denomination that teaches this, you are probably getting mad at me, but take your mind to God's Word, not the words of men! Here are further Scriptures to consider:
6. Acts 8:4-8; 14-19, tells us that the Samaritans were already converted to Christianity, then there was a second experience of the Holy Spirit that they did not have before. So, the point in this passage is that Spirit had not fallen on them before they received Christ. How do we know they were Believers? Because it is inferred by this text as well as in other passages (Acts 8:39; 16:14; 19:5).
7. Acts 11:16-18; Acts 19:2 tells us that this passage is a quote of John's baptism, foretelling the Spirit that was to come (Mark 1:4; Luke 3:3). However, many people proclaim these passages as normative for us today--to have the Baptism of the Holy Spirit as a second experience after conversion. However, they do not see the text plainly!
8. At Paul's conversion, there was amazing boldness and empowering given to him to change 180 degrees--from a fighter of Christ, to a proclaimer, and a witness of Christ to people right there on the spot (9:17 - 22)! This is an example of the Spirit's extra empowering remember Paul had already accepted the Lord, and already had the Spirit in him.
9. Ephesians 5:18 tells us that we need to be filled with the Spirit. So, what does this mean? Being filled with the Spirit basically means having great joy from our commitment to God (Nehemiah 8:10). It also means we are to seek His power with joy, for the overcoming of our sins, for the courage to witness, and for the job of ministry, even to people we do not like. This joy means radiant joy, meaning we can be filled up with the joy that flows among the Persons of the Holy Trinity. That is the very love God the Father, God the Son, and God the Spirit (One God with three personalities or manifestations, not three Gods) have for one another. This Joy will overflow from us to the others around us! This Joy becomes sealed in us as we mature in the faith and as we are filled with His Word (John 14:16-26; 16:12-15; 17:17; Eph. 1:13-14; 4:30; Col. 3:15-16). It is the power to enjoy Him in worship, as a lifestyle that will affect all aspects of our life as well as the others around us, and then will empower us for His service, for His glory. This is what we are to seek so it can be repeatable; we are not to seek it for our betterment or attention, rather for Christ's sake! We are to be filled with Joy, by being in His Word, because we are in Christ! This is the extra power He gives us to glorify and serve Him!
Again, I need to point out that all of these passages can be confusing. You must read them in their context! Do not read into them what is not there, or take away what is there (Rev. 22:18-19). Commit to see what the Word says, and not what you think it should say, or what others have told you it says. Scripture is plainly true. It means what it says, and says what it means (95% of the time, parts of Revelation and Daniel are an exception). There are no hidden meanings, no new teachings, no codes, and no deeper truths, other than our ability to comprehend and understand further as we grow and mature in Christ!
To understand this further, allow me to give you a general overview of:
How the Holy Spirit works in Acts
1. The Holy Spirit endows Believers with the power to spread the Gospel of Christ (Acts 1:8).
2. The Holy Spirit is given to all Believers as a gift (Acts 2:38; 5:32; 8:18-20; 10:45; 11:17; 11:17; 15:8).
3. The Holy Spirit falls upon people in consecutive people groups starting with, and pointing back to Pentecost (Acts 1:8; 2:38; 8:15-17; 10:44-47; 11:15; 19:6).
a. The Holy Spirit is poured out on the Jews (Acts 2:4-21).
b. The Samaritans (Acts 8).
c. The Gentiles through Cornelius' household (Acts 10:45-48; 11:16).
d. The Ephesians (Acts 19).
4. Speaking in tongues coincides with praising and glorifying God as an extra ability and power to witness to others in their own language (Acts 1:8; 2:4, 11; 10:46; 19:6).
5. Acts 5:29-32 makes it clear that obedience to God is a mark of His presence, not tongues!
So, the Holy Spirit comes into this world permanently, starting with the Chosen Ones, the Jews, who held the promise that would be shared to the rest of the world, and who also held the responsibility to be evangelists to the world (Gen 12:1-3). Then, He went to the God-fearing Greeks, then to the Samaritans, and then to the rest of the Gentile world. (Yes, this is the third time I have said this, but most people still do not get it!)
What we see in the book of Acts are diagrams, or illustrations, of what the Spirit's power looks like as it comes upon different groups. It comes with speaking in tongues for some, but not all (2:4; 10:46; 19:6), and always for a purpose for non-believers, or to help others understand in their own language. (Again I cannot emphasize this more: Tongues are never said in Scripture to be in and for itself, such as being a sign of blessing for a church, or that a person has a special insight or message directly from God that is not contained in the Bible. When this happens, this is not of God, but of human pride and grandstanding (or a work of Satan!) The Spirit comes with the gift of prophecy for some, but not all (2:17; 19:6; cf. 10:46). He comes with overflowing praise of God's glory and greatness (2:11; 10:46), never to lift people up, or to distract from Christ. He comes with a call for obedience and the formation of our character to follow God's will (5:32). He comes, giving us courage and boldness to witness and serve (2:14-36; 9:17-22). And, He brings us the power through various gifts, (Heb. 2:4) miracles, (Gal. 3:5) signs, and wonders, (Acts 6:8) that point to Him and give God the glory.
How the Holy Spirit works in the rest of the New Testament:
1. The Holy Spirit is our support (Mark 4:37-41; Matt. 14:28-33; John 20:19-22).
2. The Holy Spirit imparts new life to us, is essential to our salvation, and sensitizes us to God (John 3:3-6; 16; 1 Cor. 12:3).
3. The Holy Spirit is our companion, and always indwells in us (John 14: 1-3; 15-17; 23; 1 Cor. 6:19-20; Eph. 3:16-17; Heb. 13:5-6).
4. The Holy Spirit is our Advocate (John 14:16-17).
5. The Holy Spirit declares the truth about Christ (John 16:13-14).
6. The Holy Spirit enables us to minister and witness (Acts 1:8).
7. The Holy Spirit is God, and powerful. He is able to act in power and strength through us to do what is needed (Acts 1:8; 4:31; 10:45)
8. The Holy Spirit pours out God's Love to us (Rom. 5:4-5; Gal. 5:22-23).
9. The Holy Spirit is essential for our sanctification, growth in maturity, and faith in Christ (Rom. 7:21-21; 2 Cor. 3:18; 2 Thess. 2:23).
10. The Holy Spirit indwells (Rom. 8:9-11).
11. The Holy Spirit bears inner witness that we are His children (Rom. 8:14; Gal. 4:6).
12. The Holy Spirit intercedes and pleads for us, in our weakness, in our behalf, before God. (Rom. 8:26).
13. The Holy Spirit gives us gifts to use in His service to glorify Christ, to build His church, and to spread the Gospel (1 Cor. 12:4-11).
14. The Holy Spirit gives us the ability to exhibit godly character (Gal. 5:22-23).
15. The Holy Spirit enables us to give God the glory (Eph. 3:16).
16. The Holy Spirit regenerates the Christian (Titus 3:5)
17. The Holy Spirit inspired the writing of the Bible (2 Tim. 3:16; 2 Pet. 1:21).
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J.