This is also one of those circumstances where those who typically believe "all" doesn't really mean "all" without distinction....
is actually......applying all without distinction.
I understand, it's a distraction trying to show that if you're not one of the "elect" then men, women, boys, and girls are not only undeserving, but actually worthy of the eternal wrath of God.
So if you're NOT worthy to be on the calvinist bus God kicks you to the curb.
Men, women, boys, and girls are so lost in sin, so in love with the world, so dismissive of all things holy and righteous that they are simply unwilling and unable to come to Christ for salvation on their own R.C. Sproul
The good news is the Gospel of Jesus Christ is true and more powerful than any man-made theology that says in order to be saved you must be like us.
Jesus said: And I, if I be lifted up from the earth, will draw all men unto me. John 12:32
Who you going to believe john Calvin or Jesus Christ?
I'll go with Jesus, he's the way the truth and the life.