Runningman is not the authority here, the Bible is. Crack open your OT and go to 1 Kings 12:22 and 1 Ch 17:3.
1 Kings 12:22 and 1 Ch 17:3 clearly show that the Pre-Incarnate Word of God was a Communicative Person who had all the attributes of a Person (Mind, Will, Individuality, etc...).
- 1 Kings 12:22 "But the Word of God came to Shemaiah the man of God, saying,"
- 1 Ch 17:3 "And it happened the same night the Word of God came to Nathan, saying,
This obviously proves that the Word of God (Jesus), who is Uncreated (John 1:3), cannot possibly be just a figure or just a thought.
He is God.
Just like your children can be heir of your inheritance, the same way Jesus was made heir of his Father's inheritance. That does not change the fact that the Word was God by nature.
You're mixing roles with nature and making a mess of things. Roles are what we do and that can change. Nature is what/who we are and that never changes. Learn the difference between roles and nature.
Unitarianism collapses and explodes from the very first verse of John and there is nothing you can do about it.