Which is your problem. Apparently you do not believe that sin has so corrupted mankind that Jesus was speaking truth to power when He said "With man it is impossible", and that God said no one seeks after God, because each has gone their own way.
That is completely irrational, because this means you are assuming a definition of God, while who God is does not fit your argument at all. Faulty premise, means unsound conclusion, and irrational thought. People got that way because Adam SINNED.
Why did Adam have to sin?
What part of, it doesn't matter what you believe that doesn't give you the right to blaspheme God do you not understand?
I never did. But I believe you have flirted with it.
If we have free will as you appear to define it, then we cannot have been created by God.
Those are your words not mine. You assume that God cannot create something that thinks. That is your assumption.
Well, apparently where we split ways is my belief that God is eternal, and time doesn't mean anything to who God is and what God has done, is doing, and will do... all at the same time.
What does that have to do with whether or not God predestined you or gave me free will?
Then you need to check your argument. That's the point of the statement. Check your argument. The whole reason it says you would slander God is because you keep dragging God into, well if I'm wrong then look at what you do to God. Not me, but you for dragging Him in where you end up slandering Him if you are wrong.
If man is so sinfully dirty then how did he get that way. He was born that way, right? Then you explain it.
No, it is something for you to figure out. Obviously I can swear up and down that you are wrong, but that doens't mean anything.
Why did God waste His time writing through Paul that we are slaves of sin, if God didn't mean it? SLAVES. The lowest on the totem pole. No power, no free will to be anything other than a slave, etc. Why would God do that? And, He used slaves for a purpose. There are only two ways for a slave to be freed from their master/slavery? Someone else buys them and they become their slave instead, or someone (other than themselves) sets them free. That's it. Notice how Onesimus, even with Paul, never ceased to be a slave of Philemon. Paul did speak of Philemon perhaps releaseing Onesimus, but even though Onesimus ran away, even Paul understood that he was still Philemon's slave, and that he could rightly be held accountable by Philemon.
I already gave you what Total Depravity is. Man is so corrupted in nature by sin, that every part of their heart, body, and mind is affected to the point that man is slave to sin. Man has no ability (hence total depravity is also known as total inability) to save themselves in any way shape or form, without the intervention of God. To say this is not so is to be on the complete opposite side of Christ when He answered the disciples question "Then who can be saved?"
You should read what he had to say on Total Depravity. You should also look and see how he preached.
When Satan asked God for permission to destroy Job's life, because Satan had no right to do anything to Job, God said sure. How does that fit your understanding of loving?
So, at least you come out and tell us where the foundation of your problem is. A failure to understand the difference between temporal and eternal, time and eternity. They are not the same.
Why not? I mean, Jesus dealt with a Gentile, and He entered the city of the Samaritans. So why did He tell them not to?
Do note the free will is seen verses has nothing to do with free will. God shows mercy. Free will has nothing to do with it. If God's gift and His call are irrevocable, and the gift is salvation, can we revoke it? How about using free will? If we can, then it is no longer irrevocable is it. And it is God's call that is irrevocable, so we again see that AW Pink's take is actually accurate. It is because it is God how is giving the gift, and making the call of which those (gift and call) are irrevocable. Why? It doesn't matter how we consider ourselves, it matters how God considers us. We are not greater than God. Notice that word consigned. Just what does that word mean?
Consign -- assign; commit decisively or permanently. So God committed everyone decisively to disobedience. Consider that in light again of God's sovereignty. And why did God commit everyone decisively to disobedience? So that He can have mercy on everyone. However, that everyone is not without exception, but without distinction. Universalism is a lie. It makes everyone with exception AVAILABLE for mercy, but, as God clearly states elsewhere, He will have mercy upon whom HE wills to have mercy, and He will harden whom HE wishes to harden.
I did not blaspheme God at all.
I did say based on your beliefs that God would have had to do certain not good things.
If you had read enough of me on here on the forum you would answer this statement of yours for yourself. All others, know where I stand.
You said ......."So, at least you come out and tell us where the foundation of your problem is."
I do not have a problem. Your problem is you do not respect me enough to allow me to disagree with you with out putting me on the yellow brick road to wherever.
Now listen, and listen well.
I used to be a card carrying member of the preordained mindset. All of us Presbyterians had it infused into us from the moment of our John Calvin encouraged baby baptisms. Just as soon as we could understand things being said.
I could go into great depths of that, but I will spare others having to read what they already know about me.
But I will say that while they never taught OSAS there was a comfortable expectancy among the members that everyone was "heaven bound"
Even with my employer at the time who was a pathological liar and would freely admit he loved creating stories when the truth would have served him better.
And that employer had wandering hands with at least one of his employees that I knew about.
But he was certain beyond understanding, at least to me that he was heaven bound.
Point #2. I expect you to say you are not a Calvinist. I have yet to meet anyone who admits they follow him, even though it was from his writing that the West Minster Confession was written about 100 years after his death.
But he said one thing that was copied into the Westminster Confession which you can read at
Chapter 3, paragraph 3 III.
By the decree of God, for the manifestation of his glory, some men and angels are predestinated unto everlasting life, and others foreordained to everlasting death.
(ref. 1 Tim. 5:21; Matt. 25:41. Rom. 9:22,23; Eph. 1:5,6; Prov. 16:4).
paragraph 4 IV. These angels and men,
thus predestinated and foreordained, are particularly and
unchangeably designed; and their number is so certain and definite, that it cannot be either increased or diminished.
(ref. 2 Tim. 2:19; John 13:18.)
Allow me to interrupt here for a moment....... and ask you what you think "are particularly and
unchangeably designed;" means?
paragraph VII. The rest of mankind, God was pleased, according to the unsearchable counsel of his own will,
whereby he extendeth or withholdeth mercy as he pleaseth, for the glory of his sovereign power over his creatures, to pass by, and to ordain them to dishonour and wrath for their sin, to the praise of his glorious justice.
(ref. Matt. 11:25,26; Rom. 9:17,18,21,22; 2 Tim. 2:19,20; Jude ver. 4; 1 Pet. 2:8.)
Now enter John Calvin. The one who started this. If you want to read all about his beliefs
https://www.theologian-theology.com/theologians/john-calvin-predestination/
Predestination According to Calvin
According to John Calvin, predestination is
God’s unchangeable decree from before the creation of the world that he would freely save some people (the elect), foreordaining them to eternal life,
while the others (the reprobate) would be “barred from access to” salvation and sentenced to “eternal death (180, 184).” Calvin was careful to distinguish the predestination of individuals from the corporate election of nations such as Israel (185). He argued that an explanation of predestination is only complete when it includes the election of individuals (187).
Question. Why do you suppose that as the predestined people that were picked before the creation of the world did not include God's first? I just wonder.
So there you have it..... my main reasons for going the free will route.
And if you answer my questions, then we can be done with one another.....