Ah, so you believe people can save themselves, or that there are those out there who do not require Jesus at all to be saved, but can simply waltz into heaven. Nice. What total depravity says is that every part of man is sinful.
What this means is that God's original intent in creating man to begin with was to make man as a bundle of sin.
Every part of man has been corrupted by sin.
Made by his creator, that way.
There is no righteousness to be found in man outside of Christ/salvation.
But here is the rub. ON THIS EVERY SINGLE "true" CHRISTIAN knows this to be true.
But the difference in how said "true" Christian comes to his/her personal faith is the issue.
You believe that without the Father putting the desire in you... IOW "electing" you it is impossible.
I believe that the Father not only is capable, but has instilled in every human being a desire... so to speak that allows
everyone to watch, look and listen and then make their own choice what road they will follow.
NO IT ISNT... My beliefs are NOT predestined ones at all.
Through out the bible we read of those who were taught. We read of those who believed. We read of those who hungered for a baptism. (Eunuch) We rea of those who are who are caught in a turmoil and are in the presence of truly predestined men
who this person asked " “Sirs, what must I do to be saved?” (Acts 16:30).... and the simple reply 31They said, “Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved, you and your household.”
What did the jailer mean by his statement? As a heathen Roman (cf. Alford, 1980, 2:184), he no doubt had been exposed to Greek/Roman mythology his entire life.
Christianity had been introduced into Macedonia only days earlier when Paul arrived in Philippi (16:12; cf. Ramsay, p. 215). So it is unlikely that he possessed more than a cursory understanding of the Christian notion of salvation from sin. But events occurred in those days leading up to his conversion that may account for the jailer’s question.
Now it happened, as we went to prayer, that a certain slave girl possessed with a spirit of divination met us, who brought her masters much profit by fortune-telling. This girl followed Paul and us, and cried out, saying, “These men are the servants of the Most High God, who proclaim to us the way of salvation.” And this she did for many days (Acts 16:16-18, emp. added).
Observe that the demon within the girl announced to the citizens of Philippi over a period of “many days” the fact that Paul and Silas were representatives of the one true God, and that they possessed the information that would show people the way to salvation. In all likelihood, the jailer would have heard this declaration either firsthand or through the reports of friends, neighbors, relatives, or other townspeople.
When Paul finally expelled the demon from the girl, her irate masters assaulted him and Silas, dragged them before the magistrates of the city, and subjected them to the legal proceedings that ultimately landed them in the prison where they encountered the jailer. It is not out of the realm of possibility that the jailer was privy to these proceedings, which surely would have included reference to their alleged identity as “servants of the Most High God” who had information pertaining to “the way of salvation.”
A third means by which the jailer could have come into possession of sufficient information that would account for the phrasing of his question can be seen in verse 25: “But at midnight Paul and Silas were praying and singing hymns to God, and the prisoners were listening to them.” The jailer may well have heard the hymns that Paul and Silas sang—songs that would have included references to God, Christ, and salvation.
These three circumstances may account for the jailer’s request to be informed about salvation—albeit, even then, his understanding must have been very piecemeal. Paul’s response to the jailer’s question was: “Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and you will be saved, you and your household” (vs. 31). What did Paul mean by this statement? If he meant what many within Christendom think he meant, that is, if the jailer already knew who Jesus was, and if Paul was urging him simply to believe (i.e., simply to “accept Christ into his heart as his personal savior”), then we should next expect the text to provide the jailer’s response—something to the effect that the jailer accepted Jesus Christ as his savior, or that he believed on Jesus right then and there and was saved.
However, to the contrary, the text says: “Then they spoke the word of the Lord to him” (vs. 32). Why? Didn’t Paul just do that by telling the jailer to believe? Apparently not! Paul later wrote that “faith comes by hearing…the word of God” (Romans 10:17). So the jailer needed to hear additional information that would enable him to know what it means to believe in Jesus. It follows, then, that the instruction, “Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ” was simply a broad, sweeping statement intended to redirect the jailer’s then-present religious attachment to the pagan gods of Greek/Roman mythology toward the true object of belief—Christ. It was a way to reorient the jailer’s thinking in the direction of Jesus, as contrasted with his own pagan notions. But simply telling the jailer (or anyone today) to “believe on Jesus” does not provide sufficient information on
how to believe. In other words, there is
more to “believing on Jesus” than simply
affirming in one’s mind that Jesus is Lord and Savior (a fact readily conceded even by Satan and the demons—Genesis 3:15; Matthew 4:3,6; Luke 22:31; Hebrews 2:14; James 2:19; Revelation 12:4ff.).
It was only in speaking the word of the Lord to the jailer that he could understand who Christ is, what Christianity is about, and the proper response to the preached Word—i.e., what it means to “believe on the Lord Jesus Christ.” Since the jailer
could not be saved before Paul spoke the Word of the Lord to him, observe the sequence of events that the text reports immediately after the Word was spoken to him.
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Now the jailer was not predestined as his conversion and belief did not come until he expressed a desire of wanting to be saved.
He had heard the "good news" and in these circumstances understood that what he had heard was correct and
made an informed decision by his own choice.
They are totally depraved, and as such incapable of saving themselves. This is what Jesus is saying when in response to "then who can be saved", He said "With man it is impossible..." full stop on man. Impossible. Not improbable, or may not happen. IMPOSSIBLE. However, "WITH GOD" it becomes possible.