Ok I must have conflated you with another my apologies
No problem.
So lets deal with 2cor 5:21
I will, but first, le me go back and address one of the scripture you brought up.
The following scriptures will prove that though God's elect were by nature
only, children of wrath, yet God love for them was from everlasting being chosen
in Christ.
Ephesians 1:4
Consider: I can do not better than quote Samuel Richardson 1647 one of the signee's of first London Baptist Confession of faith 1648 ~ the second one came out in 1689
I grant all the elect are so by nature, under a state of wrath and curse, and they had perished in it, had not Jesus Christ by His death redeemed them out of that state. And although they were so by nature, yet at the same time
they were also sons of grace and love. By nature accursed, by grace in election sure to escape it, and blessed. By wrath, I understand is meant the curse of the Law, the punishment due to sin. By nature I understand the state of nature, viz.: the state and condition of man by reason of Adam's fall, for all men were considered in him, and by his fall he made them all sinners, Rom. 5:18. So, all the elect were considered in Christ, Who by His death, did free all the elect from this fall of sin and death; so as never since Christ's death, none of the elect were under that state of wrath or curse, nor indeed could possible be for these Reasons.
Because then "Christ redeemed them from under the Law," Gal. 4:4,5. "Thou hast redeemed us by thy blood," Rev. 5:9. "Christ was made under the Law," that we might betaken from under it. "We are the children of the free woman," Gal. 4:26,31. "We are delivered from the Law, wherein we were held:" Rom. 7:1, etc. "Now we know, that whatsoever the Law saith, it saith to them that are under the Law," Rom. 3:19. But we now are "not under the Law," therefore it has nothing to say to us, we "are under grace,"Rom. 6:14.2)
Because Christ, by His death, put an end to the Law, the Law was not to last any longer then till Christ came; "The Law was added till the seed should come," Gal. 3:19. "Christis the end of the Law:" Rom. 10:4. It was never in force against any of God's elect since Christ's death. "We are freed from the Law by the body of Christ," Rom. 7:4. Christ in"his flesh did abolish the Law of Commandments:" Eph. 2:15,16; Col. 2:13,14. "Now we are delivered from the Law," Rom. 7:6. "Against such there is no law:" Gal. 5:23. If the Son shall make you as free in your consciences, as the elect are free in Him, you shall see, and say you were free indeed, John 8.3)
Because the Law is dead to us, and we to it, "As a woman is freed from the law of her husband if he be dead:" so are we from the law. "Wherefore my brethren, we are become dead to the law by the body of Christ, that we should be married to another, even to him, that we should serve in newness of spirit, and not in the oldness of the letter," Rom. 7:1-7. This new husband is better than the old. Welcome Christ, and farewell Law. Now we have nothing to do with the Law, nor the Law with us, "Our old man is crucified with him," Rom. 6:6. "He that is dead is freed from sin:" v.7. "We are dead with Christ," v.8.4)
Because there is none of Moses' law now in force, to the elect, with curses to be under, nolaw, no transgression, no curse, no penalty in force now. For when the Law ceased, the curse of the Law ceased also with it. The Law said "Cursed is every one that continueth not in all things which are written in the book of the law to do them," Gal. 3:10, Deut.27:10,26.5)
Because "Christ hath redeemed us from the curse of the law, being made a curse for us,that the blessing of Christ might come upon us," Gal. 3:13,14. Christ has underwent all the curses, that all His chosen might not suffer any at all of it. And seeing none could be redeemed from the curse without His death, Christ did die. There shall none be saved, but such as were then redeemed by His death, for He will die no more, Heb. 9:25,26.6)
Because that liberty which the Saints stand in and enjoy when they believe, was not procured by their conversion and faith, etc., but by Christ upon the Cross. "Stand fast in the liberty wherewith Christ hath made us free," Gal. 5;1. This liberty believers no wenjoy, but it was purchased then by Christ's death. For then, we were perfected for ever,Heb. 10:14.
Yet until men be converted, they are visibly in a state of wrath and death.
We were never since in our sins, therefore the curse has no place, it has nothing to do with us, we have no sin, for "all our sins were laid upon Christ," as Isa. 53:6. "Christ was made sin for us," 2 Cor. 5:21, "and Curse for us," Gal. 3:13. He then "destroyed the power of death and the Devil for us," Heb. 2:14, or else we cannot be saved. Consider,Rom. 5:18 and 19, the head and the members, viz. Christ and all the Elect are but one,Heb. 2;11, they make but "one body, one Christ," 1 Cor. 12:12, therefore "we were crucified with Christ," Gal. 2:20, dead and "buried with Christ," Rom. 6 and "were quickened together with Christ," and "raised up together with Christ," Eph. 2:5,6, "we were without God afar off, and made nigh by the blood of Christ, the enmity was slain and reconciliation" was made "by the Cross," and by nothing else, Eph. 2:12-17. So that never since Christ's death, none of the Elect are under wrath or curse, for Christ has fulfilled the law for us.