Well scripture refutes you
John 12:40 (ESV) — 40 “He has blinded their eyes and hardened their heart, lest they see with their eyes, and understand with their heart, and turn, and I would heal them.”
John 20:31 (ESV) — 31 but these are written so that you may believe that Jesus is the Christ, the Son of God, and that by believing you may have life in his name.
You need to ditch post modern/post truth thought that seeks to raise man above His station. John 20:31 does nothing to lessen the truth and impact of John 12:40 at that time, which was a judgment against Israel. It was also, again, mercy, because the more they understand and still reject, the worse their eternal torment. The worse their punishment. One way to consider eternal punishment is that the level of torment/punishment is directly proportional to how much one knew of the truth and rejected. While Dante may have been wrong in his depiction of the afterlife, the idea of gradations of punishment may not be far from the mark. Jesus, through His judgments of people and places, showed that there is a level of punishment/culpability, when He said that Sodom and Gomorrah would have it easier in judgment then those who rejected Jesus words.
That is begging the question. You simply assume that those being saved wer firstregeneration but in
And you will have to keep begging the question, because God never gives an answer. We have no empirical evidence of what you are saying. That is a symptom of post modern thought. A way to attempt to weasel out of a situation by putting the onus on God.
John 20:31 (ESV) — 31 but these are written so that you may believe that Jesus is the Christ, the Son of God, and that by believing you may have life in his name.
Yes, that is why the words are written. It doesn't say it will happen, for only God would know that, and God has told us what He has done. Yet there are some who will read, and believe that Jesus is the Christ, so this is NOT out of place. Trying to squeeze more out of it then there is, is too much.
one believes before given life (regeneration)
But Paul says one cannot believe without spiritual understanding, which requires spiritual life. (not salvation, but a spirit that is alive and understanding spiritual truth. That moment for Paul on the road to Damascus is when He ran into Jesus and was knocked off his ride. Jesus knocked some sense into Saul. Saul was never more alive (spiritually, his spirit, not the Holy Spirit), and never more dead (unsaved) the moment He met Jesus on that road.
and many other place as well
Sorry you took the verse out of context. It refers to bearing fruit not believing the gospel.
So, when the disciples ask Jesus "who then can be saved", they were asking who then can bear fruit? Jesus didn't say that with non-gardening man it is impossible. With man, salvation is impossible, but with God, even that becomes possible. Yet, that makes God the focal point of salvation, and not man, which is what you believe is the focal point of salvation. If God does not intervene, if God is not involved, if God is not around, there can be no salvation.