You are making a mistake about PCE theology because or your prior acceptance of the concept that GOD's only creation of people is fulfilled in mankind. If that were true then your objections would be valid but it is not true. Uncountable billions of the people HE created are safely in heaven with HIM. ONLY SINNERS were flung into the earth ie, into Sheol inside the earth, Rev 12:4-9, to later be sown (not created) into this world of mankind as we are taught in Matt 13:36-39.In other words, He lovingly let the majority of men go to hell.
Yes in mankind, the vast majority of sinners are indeed condemned reprobate but that is acceptable because these reprobate are not new creations but are a small portion of the whole of HIS creation, a small portion who joined Satan in his fall.
Those one third of the stars that Satan flung into the earth by means of his power over them were NOT the whole of the reprobate condemned already but were the elect who rebelled against their GOD when HE called for them to come out from among the Satanic reprobate so the judgement against sinners could be called. By rebelling against this call they became sinful also and so the call for judgement was postponed, Matt 13:27-30.
The reprobate outside of HIS promise of salvation (a promise called election) are those other sinners which Michael and all the holy and eect angels flung into the earth into Sheol to be sown into mankind also, Matt 13:38-39, to where they return upon their death, Ps 9:17 as a word study of shuv - to return in that verse proves.
So by no means did HE create the vast majority of the people HE created as sinners destined for hell - that is someone else's theology.
The three Persons who shared the unique attributes of Godliness, who called their Unity YHWH, decided to increase the amount of love HE (YHWH) shared by creating others who could share with HIM and so increase the amount of love in existence, to culminate in HIS marriage to HIS creation.If God desires all men to be saved, how is it loving for him to let men override his desire for them to be saved?
But HE realized only a truly free will choice to love would enable the created person to become a real loving person. Since HE was not a Borg willing to have a Stepford wife, HE created everyone in HIS image with a free will and an equal ability and opportunity to choose to either put their faith in HIS claims to be our GOD and the only Saviour from sin for the purpose of becoming HIS Bride OR to put their faith in HIM being a liar about the reality HE presented to us and as a liar, to be rejected as a false god.
IF we have no free will we are not guilty of the evil choices we make yet scripture asserts we are guilty over and over and over...
IF we have no free will then GOD created us to do evil and is the source of our evil yet HE claims to be loving and holy...
thus my evidence for the necessity of our free will is self evident in GOD's revelation that HE is loving and holy yet evil exists...
SO,
the answer to how is it loving to allow people to override HIS desire for them not to be in hell resides in HIS purpose for our creation to be HIS Bride and the necessity of our free will to achieve that purpose which also necessitated the ability of any who wanted to to chose to thwart HIS purpose for their creation and to rebuke HIM as a false god and to refuse HIM as their GOD and saviour from any sin...the ability to eternally rebel had to also be a part of HIS reality.
NO FREE WILL means no guilt for sin due to no mens rea and no heavenly marriage but only a marriage based upon rape.