I cannot speak to the WCF (as I am a Baptist), but the London Confession of faith teaches no such nonsense about God "predestining" anyone to damnation. The hypocrisy is a figment of your imagination. We Particular Baptists believe no such nonsense. The BCF and Scripture only speak about Predestination to Salvation.
The damned are responsible for their own willful rejection of God.
Like HERE:
John 3:18-20 [NASB]
"He who believes in Him is not judged; he who does not believe has been judged already, because he has not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God. This is the judgment, that the Light has come into the world, and men loved the darkness rather than the Light, for their deeds were evil. 20 "For everyone who does evil hates the Light, and does not come to the Light for fear that his deeds will be exposed."
and HERE:
Romans 3:10-12 [NASB]
as it is written,
"THERE IS NONE RIGHTEOUS, NOT EVEN ONE;
11 THERE IS NONE WHO UNDERSTANDS, THERE IS NONE WHO SEEKS FOR GOD;
12 ALL HAVE TURNED ASIDE, TOGETHER THEY HAVE BECOME USELESS;
THERE IS NONE WHO DOES GOOD, THERE IS NOT EVEN ONE."
None of this speaks of God rejecting people, but of sinful people rejecting God.
God PREDESTINES and DRAWS men to salvation ...
Ephesians 2:1-10 [NASB]
And
you were dead in your trespasses and sins, in which you formerly walked according to the course of this world, according to the prince of the power of the air, of the spirit that is now working in the sons of disobedience. Among them we too all formerly lived in the lusts of our flesh, indulging the desires of the flesh and of the mind, and were by nature children of wrath, even as the rest.
But God, being rich in mercy, because of His great love with which He loved us, even when we were dead in our transgressions, made us alive together with Christ (by grace you have been saved), and raised us up with Him, and seated us with Him in the heavenly [places] in Christ Jesus, so that in the ages to come He might show the surpassing riches of His grace in kindness toward us in Christ Jesus.
For by grace you have been saved through faith; and that not of yourselves, [it is] the gift of God; not as a result of works, so that no one may boast. For
we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works,
which God prepared beforehand so that we would walk in them.
- About God saving, not God damning.
Romans 8:28-30 [NASB] And we know that
God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those
who are called according to [His] purpose. For
those whom He foreknew, He also predestined [to become] conformed to the image of His Son, so that He would be the firstborn among many brethren; and
these whom He predestined, He also called; and
these whom He called, He also justified; and
these whom He justified, He also glorified.
- About God predestining for salvation, not God predestining for damnation.
John 6:44-45 [NASB] "No one can
come to Me unless the Father who sent Me draws him; and I will raise him up on the last day. It is written in the prophets, 'AND
THEY SHALL ALL BE TAUGHT OF GOD.'
Everyone who has heard and learned from the Father, comes to Me."
- About God drawing TO Christ, not God driving away.