Death is the result of sin.
Death existed before Adam. Death entered this world. It was not part of this world. The penalty of death is the limit of the natural life of Adam. The right to Eternal life only comes through Christ. God had a plan to establish such before this world was ever formed. God's work takes time. He is patient. You're looking at this through the eyes of another.
You can't change reality. God set that reality. Adam has no control over reality.
You believe that God wanted Adam to die in His judgement of Adam. God didn't. He never did. There is only one way to establish the meaningfulness of the love of God, and that is through God's creation learning through experience what it means to have it "their way". (absence of God).
That is what you see in God's actions initially in humanity. God's plan gradually working for the good of Love.
Do I want my children to die? Of course not!
Neither does God! God outsmarted Satan. This just isn't about us. It is part of us but it is not all about us. However, you insist the nature of God demands damnation for sin to the point that Christ must suffer the damnation of mankind in order to redeem man. That is preposterous. It devalues the Atonement. It devalues Grace and Mercy. It devalues the Character of God.
But can I shrug my shoulders and say "oh well, lets forget about your sin and ignore the problem"
There is a reason God let the prodigal son do as he pleased. It is why we have to walk away from our own at times and let them have their way. They must learn. They must have "skin in the game" or it will mean NOTHING to them. NOTHING.
You're not looking at this the right way. I hope you consider what I say. Ultimately, it is your choice.
then carry on as if nothing has happened? An emphatic NO!!! It must be dealt with otherwise my word means nothing, it becomes irrelevant. Love is the motivation for the Cross, but not love of sinful man. God so loved (past tense) the world (the one He originally created before sin marred it, the one He called good) and the Son so loved the Father that He was willing to die even death on a Cross, a most tortuous death.
Really? God loved man in Himself.
Act 17:26 And he made from one man every nation of mankind to live on all the face of the earth, having determined allotted periods and the boundaries of their dwelling place,
Act 17:27 that they should seek God, and perhaps feel their way toward him and find him. Yet he is actually not far from each one of us,
Act 17:28 for “‘In him we live and move and have our being’; as even some of your own poets have said, “‘For we are indeed his offspring.’
Act 17:29 Being then God's offspring, we ought not to think that the divine being is like gold or silver or stone, an image formed by the art and imagination of man.
I am not ignoring you, I am trying to set you straight.
I appreciate that.....
Hopefully all men will struggle to find the Truth.....
What do we care about that doesn't come from a struggle? We are a fickle creator without God. Incomplete but designed to be a "searcher".....
Have you ever stopped and realized that our very nature is one of exploration? Seeking? Trying to endless find satisfaction while never getting there?
God has designed this life in His wisdom to guide us to Him. It is why we seek. Why we are always searching. Even when we find Him, it is only a taste of Glory Divine. A glimpse of things Eternal. Even the mind He imparts must LEARN of Him. The new eyes we receive don't understand everything we now see. The ears that once didn't recognize the voice of God can now hear Him clearly. Yet, we often have to be silent to hear His small still voice. At every turn our faith is tried..... not that God should know us... but that we should know ourselves in knowing Him.