If the person had a hundred ropes and refused to save anyone else, I might consider they are not really a good person to only offer help to some and not others. Also, if the person was the one who made the quicksand to begin with, and set it up in such a way that he knew I would fall without my choice, then he would be saving me from his own disaster he created in a sense. I may very well object to being saved by such a person under conditions that seem unfair to me. Now I could be selfish and not care about anyone else, and that is one way to resolve the problem, but that's still not going to make me like a person who creates quicksand just to let people drown in it. Ideally—the reason we should be saved is for God's sake and not our own sake. Fundamentally, you are going to have to get to a place where you realize you cannot justify God by your own standard in every case, and you must put God above what you personally think is right, as an act of worship and submission—and that not a thing any human being does naturally on their own.
that is what happens when men sit under and or sat under calvin or his pre destination .
But many forget to read the end
of revelation
WHO SO EVER WILL , LET HIM COME and drink of the water of life freely .
THE POT cant blame GOD .
The reason men reject CHRIST
the reason many create another version or image of Christ
THEY LOVE THEIR SIN . MEN loved the darkness and wont come to the LIGHT
lest their evil deeds be exposed .
MANY have sat under men in churches and they have been taught by carnal minds of men
that often twisted things and tried to put GOD into a carnal intellectual box that men can then
reason as they please unto what version of HIM they desire to come to and to sit under .
THAT HAS BEEN the problem .
ME , i keep it real simple . WHO so ever beleives WILL BE SAVED , who so ever rejects shall be damned .
Thus JESUS is gonna be preached on my watch . The things many often sit under
have tried to grasp hold onto things far too high for their carnal minds and thus them minds
TWIST IT ALL unto their own destruction .
BUT ME , by grace I DO KNOW WHO SAVES and I DO KNOW ONE MUST BELIEVE
so guess what i am and who i am gonna preach .
JESUS CHRIST and HIM CRUCIFIED . cause i KNOW HE SAVES . THAT I DO KNOW
and i know ITS SUPER DEADLY to reject HIM and damnation awaits all who did . PRETTY SIMPLE .