You are correct in saying: "no explicit" statement as "God poured out His wrath on His Son"
Which then begs the question: What exactly did Jesus suffer from God's Plan/Perspective?
I believe the scriptures clearly show forth PSA = Isaiah chapter 53 and the Psalms and who and what HE suffered for.
This does not mean that we are to argue against each other but rather to sharpen each other by breaking the Bread of the Word together = "Take eat, for this is My Body BROKEN for you"
In
Matthew 26:39, Jesus says, "If it be your will, let this cup pass from me." Jesus tells us precisely what the cup was. It was the cup of his suffering, which meant that He would die an agonizing death as a martyr. In the passage below, Jesus told His disciples that they would also drink
of the same "cup":
Matthew 20:17-
Now Jesus was going up to Jerusalem. On the way, he took the Twelve aside and said to them,
18 “We are going up to Jerusalem, and the Son of Man will be delivered over to the chief priests and the teachers of the law. They will condemn him to death
19 and will hand him over to the Gentiles to be mocked and flogged and crucified. On the third day he will be raised to life!”
20 Then the mother of Zebedee’s sons came to Jesus with her sons and, kneeling down, asked a favor of him.
21 “What is it you want?” he asked. She said, "Grant that one of these two sons of mine may sit at your right and the other at your left in your kingdom."
22 “You don’t know what you are asking,” Jesus said to them. “Can you drink the cup I am going to drink?” “We can,” they answered.
23 Jesus said to them, “
You will indeed drink from my cup, but to sit at my right or left is not for me to grant. These places belong to those for whom they have been prepared by my Father.”
1Thessalonians 5:9-For God did not appoint us to suffer wrath but to receive salvation through our Lord Jesus Christ.
As we see above it was not the cup of wrath Jesus was speaking about but it was the suffering He was going to have to endure for our sins. God has not appointed us to wrath and the cup means the suffering of Jesus and that the disciples would also suffer death as martyrs. In fact, many scriptures testify that believers too will suffer persecution for being a follower of Jesus.
Suffering persecution is a promise for a believer who follows Jesus, it is something we should expect to happen in our life.
2 Timothy 3:12- Yes, and everyone who wants to live a godly life in Christ Jesus
will suffer persecution.
John 15:20
Remember the word that I spoke to you: 'No servant is greater than his master.
' If they persecuted Me, they will persecute you as well; if they kept My word, they will keep yours as well.
Matthew 5:10 -
Blessed are those who are persecuted because of righteousness, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
2 Corinthians 4:9-
persecuted, but not forsaken; struck down, but not destroyed.
Hebrews 13:5- Keep your lives free from the love of money and be content with what you have, for God has said: "
Never will I leave you, never will I forsake you."
Romans 8:35
Who shall separate us from the love of Christ?Shall trouble or distress or persecution or famine or nakedness or danger or sword?
Deuteronomy 4:31
For the LORD your God is a merciful God;
He will not abandon you or destroy you or forget the covenant with your fathers, which He swore to them by oath.
Deuteronomy 31:6
Be strong and courageous; do not be afraid or terrified of them, for it is the LORD your God who goes with you;
He will never leave you nor forsake you."
Deuteronomy 31:8
The LORD Himself goes before you; He will be with you.
He will never leave you nor forsake you. Do not be afraid or discouraged."
Joshua 1:5
No one shall stand against you all the days of your life. As I was with Moses, so will I be with you;
I will never leave you nor forsake you.
Psalm 9:10
And they that know thy name will put their trust in thee: for thou, LORD,
hast not forsaken them that seek thee
Psalm 37:25, 28
I have been young, and
now am old; yet have
I not seen the righteous forsaken, nor his seed begging bread: For the LORD loves
justice and will not forsake His saints. They are preserved forever,but the offspring of the wicked will be cut off.
Isaiah 41:17- The poor and needy seek water, but there is none; their tongues are parched with thirst. I, the LORD, will answer them;
I, the God of Israel, will not forsake them
Who was responsible for putting Jesus to death, was it God or man?
Acts 2:23
This man was handed over to you by God’s deliberate plan and foreknowledge; and you, with the help of wicked men, put him to death by nailing him to the cross
Acts 4:10, 11
Be it known unto you all, and to all the people of Israel, that by the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, whom ye crucified, whom God raised from the dead, even by him doth this man stand here before you whole…
Acts 5:30
The God of our fathers raised up Jesus, whom ye slew and hanged on a tree.
Acts 7:52
Was there ever a prophet your ancestors did not persecute? They even killed those who predicted the coming of the Righteous One. And now you have betrayed and murdered him
Acts 13:27
For they that dwell at Jerusalem, and their rulers, because they knew him not, nor yet the voices of the prophets which are read every sabbath day, they have fulfilled them in condemning him
1 Corinthians 2:8-
None of the rulers of this age understood this, for if they had, they would not have crucified the Lord of glory
conclusion: Jesus the Righteous One, Holy One, Divine Son of God was not forsaken by the Father as Scripture declares in many places in both testaments. One cannot Isolate Jesus words from the rest of Scripture that contradicts Gods promise to never forsake His righteous ones. That is a promise from God that He will never break. Those who teach He was forsaken are misunderstanding Scripture and have God contradicting Himself and making God the Father out to be a liar.
hope this helps !!!