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Most Christians, including many Catholics, do not believe in the Dogma of the Perpetual Virginity of Mary. Many point to the instances in the gospels referring to Jesus’ brothers and sisters, believing this to be directly contradictory to the dogmatic teaching.
Is he not the carpenter, the son of Mary, and the brother of James and Joses and Judas and Simon? And are not his sisters here with us? (Mk. 6:3)
On its surface this passage from Mark’s Gospel certainly seems to refute the teaching. But from its earliest days, the Church has held that Mary was a perpetual virgin. Mary’s perpetual virginity was declared a dogma of our Catholic Faith at the Second Council of Constantinople
in 553 AD.
To substantiate that the Dogma of the Perpetual Virginity of Mary is indeed true requires analysis of several passages from both the New and Old Testaments as well as quotations from early Church Fathers.
The first of these biblical passages comes from Luke’s Gospel.
Doesn’t Mary’s response to the Angel Gabriel seem odd in light of her betrothal to Joseph? Mary’s response to the Angel Gabriel reveals that she has had no sexual relations with a man
and strongly implies that there is no intention on her part to have such relations in the future. In the Jewish culture of that time, Mary and Joseph are by virtue of their betrothal, already married but not yet living together. This temporary living arrangement generally lasted between six to twelve months.
It’s important to note that in this passage the Angel Gabriel is
silent on when she will conceive. How then does Mary’s response make any sense, knowing that she will soon be living with Joseph as his wife?
It would only make sense if Mary had taken a perpetual vow of virginity which some married women of that time took. The biblical basis for such a vow of virginity can be found in chapter 30 of the Book of Numbers.
Therefore, if Mary had taken a vow of virginity before her betrothal to Joseph, and informed Joseph of such a vow, and he did not object to it on the day she told him of it, then her vow of virginity would have remained valid and in effect.
This seems quite possible in light of Church tradition which holds that Mary at a very young age, quite possibly as young as three, was sent by her parents to be raised in the Temple. As such she would have been open to a life of virginity.
And yet there are several gospel passages which appear to substantiate the claim that Mary had other children after giving birth to Jesus. Here is another passage which purports to support such claims.
The operative word in this passage is “until.” In the lexicon of today’s English language, the meaning of the word “until” implies that what was true up to a specified point in time is no longer true after that point in time occurs.
For example, the phrase “Bill said he never voted until he was twenty-one years old,” infers that Bill voted after he reached the age of twenty-one.
The original Greek texts of the gospels were written in Kione Greek, the common language of the eastern Mediterranean at that time. The Greek word used in this verse for “until” is
heos, and the meaning of that word makes no such assertion about the period after its point of reference,
but only the period before.
Here are two examples in Matthew’s Gospel to illustrate this point.
Does this verse mean that Jesus will not be sitting next to His Father after his enemies are put under His feet? Of course not. The meaning of the word only refers to the period before His enemies are put under His feet!
Here’s a second example in which Jesus is addressing His disciples.
Does this mean that Jesus will not be with His disciples after the end of the age? Again, of course not! So, we must be mindful that our current understanding of the meaning of the word “until” was not how its meaning was understood by the people living in Israel in the first century!
Now if Mary had indeed taken a perpetual vow of virginity, and Joseph “had no relations with her until she bore a son,” it stands to reason that Joseph had accepted her vow of virginity. Afterall, Joseph as a righteous man would not have broken the law as referenced in the Book of Numbers:
If Mary had made a vow of virginity, which is strongly suggested in her dialogue with the Angel Gabriel, and Joseph
did not object to that vow on the day he learned of it, then any sexual relations with Mary by Joseph would have resulted in his sin, which further supports the case for her perpetual virginity.
But how do these factors explain away this passage from Mark’s Gospel?
The key words in this passage are “brother” and “sisters.” The Greek word for brother and sisters in these texts is
adelphoi which was used principally—but
not exclusively—to depict brother and sister. It was at times used to depict half-brother, half-sister, or cousin.
In fact, the gospels strongly suggest that the so-called “brothers” of Jesus are in fact the sons of another woman named Mary. Most likely the wife of Joseph’s brother, whose name was Clopas. That would make this other Mary the sister-in-law of Mary, the mother of Jesus. The following passage of the crucifixion from Mark’s Gospel provides further evidence:
In this gospel passage, this other Mary is referred to as the mother of two sons whose names match the very names quoted in Mark 6:3 above. Additionally, this Mary is mentioned as having “followed him when he was in Galilee and ministered to him” which makes no sense if this passage was referring to His own mother.
And then there’s this passage from John’s Gospel:
In this passage, the other Mary is identified as Jesus’ mother’s sister. It’s highly unlikely that St. Anne, the mother of Mary, would have had two daughters both named Mary. It is far more likely that this reference to “sister” means sister-
in-law. Her children would therefore be cousins of Jesus by marriage.
Further, in Chapter 15 of the Acts of the Apostles, James is referred to as the leader of the Church in Jerusalem. Church tradition has always held that this James was also an Apostle and a cousin of Jesus along with his brother Judas (not to be confused with Judas Iscariot).
This confirms three of the four “brothers”—James, Joses, and Judas—as
cousins of Jesus and not His brothers!
The final piece of evidence to support that Jesus had no biological brothers or sisters is Jesus’ giving His mother to His beloved disciple. If Jesus did have brothers and sisters, then He would not have done this. Such an act would have shown great disrespect to both His mother and His siblings, by virtue of the norms and customs of Jewish society of that time.
Here is a quote on this point from St. Athanasius, who is widely credited with writing much of the Nicaean Creed which we recite at Mass each Sunday.
One final argument in support of the Dogma of the Perpetual Virginity of Mary can be found in the Old Testament. And it relates to the Ark of the Covenant. For those of you not familiar with the Ark of the Covenant, it was a container that God instructed the Israelites to build, made of acacia wood and plated with pure gold. The ark had four rings cast of gold that were attached to it along with two poles made of acacia wood and also plated with gold.
These poles were put through the rings on the sides of the ark, for purposes of transporting it. Only the priests were allowed to carry it. Once the poles were placed through the rings, they were never to be removed. Inside the ark were the stone tablets of the Ten Commandments, some of the manna from heaven, and Aaron’s staff.
No one was permitted to touch the ark as it contained the very presence of God, the shekinah glory which made manifest God’s presence as a pillar of cloud above the ark by day and a pillar of fire above it by night. Here is one account from the First Book of Chronicles when someone unfortunately did just that:
Now if Uzzah died by merely touching the ark with his hand, does it not stand to reason that Mary, who, as a pure and holy vessel in her own right, by carrying in her virginal womb the Son of God for nine months, would remain perpetually a virgin holy and undefiled throughout her life?
As was pointed out at the beginning of this article, the Church
from its very beginnings believed in the perpetual virginity of Mary. Here is a quote from the fourth century by St. Jerome who strongly believed in Mary’s perpetual virginity.
To say he was knowledgeable of Sacred Scripture is a gross understatement. St. Jerome was not just any early Christian but an important Church Father. As an extraordinary linguist, he was the person responsible for translating all of the Old and New Testament books into one common language, resulting in the Latin Vulgate Bible.
In conclusion, this article highlights that much of the disbelief in Mary’s perpetual virginity can be attributed to the lack of understanding of the differences in meaning of the Kione Greek words for “until” (
heos) and “brothers” and “sisters” (
adelphoi) when translated into the English language.
In addition, there are a number of cultural differences at play that confound us—such as married women having taken vows of virginity as well as the shame a woman would bear being cared for by someone other than her own offspring, if such offspring existed.
Mary is a virgin just as her Son is a virgin! Let us cast off any doubts concerning Mary’s perpetual virginity and believe in this important dogmatic teaching of the Church. By doing so we honor her and give greater glory to our Lord!
I would like to recommend an excellent book authored by Brant Pitre, entitled Jesus and the Jewish Roots of Mary. It was an invaluable source of information for this article. Indeed, his reasoning and logic in defense of this dogmatic teaching was used extensively by me in writing this article. In my opinion, Brant Pitre is one of the finest and most influential Catholic apologist writers of our time.