I accept these things but I am not a Calvinist because he missed the boat on so many other points of reality about our creation and our fall.
WE can only become sinners liable to hell
by our own choice to sin, not by our creation. Therefore no amount of words, books or libraries are acceptable to me if they conclude that we are created sinners in Adam and he caused this world of grief.
Neither can I accept that there are people who are damned to hell who could be saved if GOD was just patient enough.
1 Cor 4 Love is patient, love is kind. If HIS love is perfect, HIS patience is perfect and never ending.
No one is condemned to or liable to end in hell who can be saved but only those who have put themselves outside of HIS loving mercy and grace by their free will. There will be no one in hell who could be saved if GOD had only waited for them to answer the call to repentance and not cut them off. Only the reprobate who chose by their free will to deny YHWH as their GOD and Saviour because they believed HE was liar and a false god are condemned by having put themselves eternally outside of HIS grace.
The sheep were those who put their faith in HIM as their GOD and Saviour by their free will (some only to escape hell) though they later became HIS sheep
gone astray into sin by their free will decision to rebel against HIS commands. Because they had once put their faith in HIM, HE could draw them back to that faith but those who never had faith cannot be brought back by anything HE can do because they've never had anything but hate for HIM:
Berean Standard Bible
Jn 3:18 Whoever believes in Him is not condemned, but whoever does not believe has already been condemned, because he has not believed in the name of God’s one and only Son.
Calvinist and Arminian type theologies all deny the perfection of HIS love and patience, selling HIM short to fit hell into the gospel after rejecting our pre-conception choices as the cause for our election or reprobation and the meaning of the difference between the people of the kingdom and the people of the evil one:
Matt 13:37 He replied, “The One who sows the good seed is the Son of Man. 38 The field is the world, and the good seed represents the sons of the kingdom. The weeds are the sons of the evil one, 39 and the enemy who sows them is the devil.