Sorry you are reading that into my words
I never stated any such thing
Nor do I hold to any such thing
Of course, Jesus was both man and God.
That is biblical theology
You appear, on the other hand, to be denying his deity.
You ignored the scripture quoted
Jesus was quoting from
Psalm 22:1–24 (LEB) — 1 My God, my God why have you forsaken me? Why are you far from helping me, far from the words of my groaning? 2 O my God, I call by day and you do not answer, and by night but I have no rest. 3 Yet you are holy, enthroned on the praises of Israel. 4 Our ancestors trusted you; they trusted and you delivered them. 5 They cried to you and were saved; they trusted you and were not ashamed. 6 But I am a worm and not a man, scorned by humankind and despised by people. 7 All who see me mock me. They open wide their lips; they shake the head, saying: 8 “He trusts Yahweh. Let him rescue him. Let him deliver him because he delights in him.” 9 Yet you took me from the belly; you made me trust while on my mother’s breasts. 10 On you I was cast from the womb. From my mother’s belly you have been my God. 11 Do not be far from me because trouble is near; because there is no helper. 12 Many bulls have encircled me; mighty bulls of Bashan have surrounded me. 13 They open their mouth against me like a lion tearing and roaring. 14 I am poured out like water, and all my bones are out of joint. My heart is like wax; it is melted within me. 15 My strength is dry like a potsherd, and my tongue is sticking to my jaws; and you have placed me in the dust of death. 16 Because dogs have surrounded me; a gang of evildoers has encircled me. Like the lion they are at my hands and my feet. 17 I can count all my bones; they gaze, they look at me. 18 They divide my garments among them, and for my clothing they cast lots. 19 But you, O Yahweh, do not remain distant. O my help, hasten to help me. 20 Rescue my life from the sword, my only life from the power of the dogs. 21 Save me from the mouth of the lion, and from the horns of the wild oxen answer me. 22 I will tell your name to my brothers; inside the assembly I will praise you. 23 You who revere Yahweh, praise him! Glorify him, all you seed of Jacob, and be in awe of him, all you seed of Israel, 24 because he has not despised nor abhorred the affliction of the afflicted, and has not hid his face from him; but he listened to him when he cried for help.
where we find out he did not forsake him
You also ignored both
2 Corinthians 5:19 (LEB) — 19 namely, that God was in Christ reconciling the world to himself, not counting their trespasses against them, and entrusting to us the message of reconciliation.
and
Hebrews 5:7 (LEB) — 7 who in the days of his flesh offered up both prayers and supplications, with loud crying and tears, to the one who was able to save him from death, and he was heard as a result of his reverence.
as well as the fact
I did not ignore that which is completely unrelated to the argument. Jesus cried out "My God, My God, why hast Thou forsaken Me?" Are you going to claim that Jesus lied on the cross? That His question did not speak to reality? Or, are you going to look into the whole of what was happening, and find all the parts that you are missing that make this truth, and rational. If you simply make the statement that he did not forsake him, does that not mean Jesus lied? Jesus spoke evil of the Father by making an untruthful claim attacking God's faithfulness? Or is there more to the situation that explains why Jesus said that, and meant it?
On 2 Corinthians, why do you ignore the rest of the verse that explains what the verse means? You ignore the context. It isn't saying that Christ is incarnate (there are enough verses in scripture that state this, that one that doesn't changes nothing). God was in Christ's sacrifice, was behind Christ's sacrifice, which was to reconcile the world to himself. By way of the sacrifice, He did not count their sins against them. Why not? He counted it against Christ, however, Christ was innocent and through this God made a way where He did not count their sins against Him. By this, He entrusted to Paul and the apostles the message of reconciliation with God through Christ. That reconciliation is that by Christ's death, the sins of the believer are no longer counted against them, so the believer can approach God through Christ.
For Hebrews, Jesus was praying, and the biggest one was in the Garden of Gethsemane. God heard His prayer as a result of His reverence, and resurrected His Son from the dead on the third day. To be saved from death, one has to be facing death, or in death. That is the moment when Jesus cried out "My God, My God, why hast thou forsaken Me", ending with "It is finished". At death, His spirit was made alive, which must mean... it was dead. Since God cannot be dead, it is obviously speaking of the human nature/spirit, and that being saved from death.
John 14:10–11 (LEB) — 10 Do you not believe that I am in the Father and the Father is in me? The words that I say to you I do not speak from myself, but the Father residing in me does his works. 11 Believe me that I am in the Father and the Father is in me; but if not, believe because of the works themselves.
This references the Perichoresis or the mutual indwelling of those in the Trinity
I fail to see how this relates to Jesus being both God and man. Jesus does not have to speak to this because, to those seeing Him bodily, it is obvious that He is man. So He speaks to the divine nature of Himself, not dealing with the human part. Looking back, He mentions the human part in only that He is doing work on Earth, with Him in human form.
Somehow you manage to keep ignoring the humanity of Jesus as though He wasn't human at all. Again, the wrath was poured out on the sin, which was carried by the humanity of Christ for God cannot have any fellowship with sin. Why you deny that God cannot have fellowship with sin is beyond me. The forsaking of Christ is when the fellowship/communion between the human and divine natures in Jesus was cut off by the sin Jesus bore. As you can see, it isn't actually Jesus being forsaken, but in His state, it would most certainly feel like it. God never left, but could not have communion/fellowship with sin. So during the time Christ was actually paying the penalty for our sin, He was separated from God (the flesh, the sacrifice, the one who bore the sin was separated from God) until He said "It is finished!". What was finished? Jesus bearing our sins in sacrifice. He then died, and though His spirit (not speaking of the divine/diety, but human nature/spirit) was dead, it was made alive, according to Peter.
You keep forgetting the humanity. You seem dead set on separating the humanity from Christ. It is fine that you cannot understand/see God's wrath poured out on Christ because of the sin He bore on the cross. Just don't deny that something happened. Tony Campolo's son denied it, and then could see no reason for Jesus dying, and became an atheist/agnostic. By the way, this whole take on God pouring out his wrath on God, and cosmic child abuse, came from the femi-nazis of the past. If you want to see some really messed up theology, look up the proponents of what you are pushing. There is no other words for who they are other then hell bound heretics. When you hear what they have to say about Jesus, if it doesn't disturb you, you have no hope.