TibiasDad
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Indeed, the conviction of the Spirit cause us to hear/understand the truth about our standing with God and God’s offer of forgiveness and mercy, and allows us to respond personally to that message.Umm … God is in control of salvation; man is in control of damnation. It is a SCRIPTURAL paradox (like all good paradoxes, it may appear false while in fact being true … that is what makes it a paradox instead of a contradiction).
Salvation (of God):
- One who heard us was a woman named Lydia, from the city of Thyatira, a seller of purple goods, who was a worshiper of God. The Lord opened her heart to pay attention to what was said by Paul. - Acts 16:14 [ESV]
For instance, Lydia believed, but many do not believe. We see this demonstrated in Acts 17 with Paul in Athens:
32When they heard about the resurrection of the dead, some of them sneered, but others said, “We want to hear you again on this subject.” 33At that, Paul left the Council. 34Some of the people became followers of Paul and believed. Among them was Dionysius, a member of the Areopagus, also a woman named Damaris, and a number of others.
- For he says to Moses, "I will have mercy on whom I have mercy, and I will have compassion on whom I have compassion." So then it depends not on human will or exertion, but on God, who has mercy. - Romans 9:15-16 [ESV]
Yep, and the standard set by God is that he will have mercy and grant eternal life to anyone that believes in him! (Not anyone to whom God gives belief.)
God is the only one who can forgive and save us.
Again, and by your own admission by placing this verse in the category of “Salvation”, the gift is salvation, being saved. The means by which salvation occurs is “by grace through faith”. Salvation is “not of our own doing”, “not by works” (which in Paul’s mind is always referring to works of keeping the Law”!).
- For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, not a result of works, so that no one may boast. - Ephesians 2:8-9 ESV]
Again, God cannot possibly be obligated to act with kindness by any action of man; thus, salvation cannot possibly be “by works”. And since God is the offended party, only he can grant reconciliation to mankind. (The cheating spouse is never the one to grant the reconciliation of the relationship. Only the offended spouse can do that.)
So even if man would be able to seek God’s forgiveness, God is not obligated to do so.
I would never say anything other than this. We are guilty before God. Period. We cannot make God reconcile with us. Only God can do that! Our desires are irrelevant and ineffectual. Only God’s desire and power are effectual to reconciliation.Damnation (of man):
- And this is the judgment: the light has come into the world, and people loved the darkness rather than the light because their works were evil. For everyone who does wicked things hates the light and does not come to the light, lest his works should be exposed. - John 3:19-20 [ESV]
- "None is righteous, no, not one; no one understands; no one seeks for God. All have turned aside; together they have become worthless; no one does good, not even one." - Romans 3:10-12 [ESV]
- And you were dead in the trespasses and sins in which you once walked, following the course of this world, following the prince of the power of the air, the spirit that is now at work in the sons of disobedience-- among whom we all once lived in the passions of our flesh, carrying out the desires of the body and the mind, and were by nature children of wrath, like the rest of mankind. - Ephesians 2:1-3 ESV]
Doug