Please Pray For My Mom

[AlwaysOnAJourney]

why not just visit with her without butting into her sleep habits or moods. and just share care. She is an adult and will share when she wants to what she wants to if she feels safe and without pressure.

I would hate the pressure and microscope myself. And I would push it away.

This is an old post, and it would be ok if it was closed. Anyways what you suggested is impossible. I live with my Mom and Dad. Back when this was going on, she was yelling at me about every little thing. I do mean every little thing you can think of! Even using the restroom (we only have one) I would get yelled at. It took a Month and half, before she finally told us what was going on inside. Then she gradually started to calm down.

 

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This is an old post, and it would be ok if it was closed. Anyways what you suggested is impossible. I live with my Mom and Dad. Back when this was going on, she was yelling at me about every little thing. I do mean every little thing you can think of! Even using the restroom (we only have one) I would get yelled at. It took a Month and half, before she finally told us what was going on inside. Then she gradually started to calm down.

oh my... i am sorry to hear it was like that.

 

[AlwaysOnAJourney]

oh my... i am sorry to hear it was like that.

I think some of it is because she has got really bad eyesight, and needs to put special drops in her eyes. She's also got some other problems too. I don't fully understand it all. She just gets upset, and doesn't explain in logical terms to anyone why. For some reason, when she is going through one of her things, she will blame dad and I. I don't think we do anything wrong. We try to help her, and sometimes even just offering to help her, makes her angry.

 

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I think some of it is because she has got really bad eyesight, and needs to put special drops in her eyes. She's also got some other problems too. I don't fully understand it all. She just gets upset, and doesn't explain in logical terms to anyone why. For some reason, when she is going through one of her things, she will blame dad and I. I don't think we do anything wrong. We try to help her, and sometimes even just offering to help her, makes her angry.

I have bad vision and am treating a cataract with dmso. The other eye is okay. All my floaters are gone now though from the dmso drops and other drops which have ingredients that I researched. I don't go to the medical establishment anymore after the events in recent years. It is all dyi for me. Lost trust.

 

[dwight92070]

I think some of it is because she has got really bad eyesight, and needs to put special drops in her eyes. She's also got some other problems too. I don't fully understand it all. She just gets upset, and doesn't explain in logical terms to anyone why. For some reason, when she is going through one of her things, she will blame dad and I. I don't think we do anything wrong. We try to help her, and sometimes even just offering to help her, makes her angry.

I just prayed for you, your dad, and your mom and will ask friends to pray as well. You are NOT stupid. A stupid person would not have the love and concern for their parents that you have. You are obeying God by honoring them, even though your mom does not always respect you. Even though you never had or maybe now do not have friends, God is your friend. Do everything as unto Him, because it is really Him that you serve, as we all do.
When your mom yells, has she ever hit you or your dad? If that is happening, then she needs to be confronted by some outside authority, because you can't live with a person who does that. In fact, if that is happening, even the police can be called. If she gets mad about that, then she needs to live somewhere else. If she's acting like an angry child who doesn't get her way, then an authority figure needs to step in and firmly tell her to stop it. Somebody in your house needs to act like an adult and not allow her anger to control you or your dad. She needs to be told to STOP what she's doing and grow up.

 

[AlwaysOnAJourney]

I just prayed for you, your dad, and your mom and will ask friends to pray as well. You are NOT stupid. A stupid person would not have the love and concern for their parents that you have. You are obeying God by honoring them, even though your mom does not always respect you. Even though you never had or maybe now do not have friends, God is your friend. Do everything as unto Him, because it is really Him that you serve, as we all do.
When your mom yells, has she ever hit you or your dad? If that is happening, then she needs to be confronted by some outside authority, because you can't live with a person who does that. In fact, if that is happening, even the police can be called. If she gets mad about that, then she needs to live somewhere else. If she's acting like an angry child who doesn't get her way, then an authority figure needs to step in and firmly tell her to stop it. Somebody in your house needs to act like an adult and not allow her anger to control you or your dad. She needs to be told to STOP what she's doing and grow up.

Thank you for your prayer and the advice. Thankfully Mom has never hit anyone. My family has always let out our frustrations through just yelling.

 

[dwight92070]

You said: " It took a Month and half, before she finally told us what was going on inside. Then she gradually started to calm down."

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Can you tell us what she said? That is, what is going on inside her?

You also said, " My family has always let out our frustrations through just yelling."

Do you yell too? If so, it's time to stop. Don't allow her yelling to control you, so that you feel like you have to yell too. Yelling only escalates the problems.

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[AlwaysOnAJourney]

You are asking me about something that happened in the middle of July! We are in November 5, 2024. This thread should be closed.