@JoshebB
I am not discussing him further. He has had enough time in my life.
Technically, that is not true.
To truly be free of someone's or something's influence is to be apathetic (absent pathos). That means every word of protest is an influence of
antithesis.
Many, many years ago when I was a philosophy major, I happened upon a very minor existential philosopher named Gurdjieff. There's a story attributed to him that goes something like this: An American was staying at Gurdjieff's retreat outside of Paris and he was meditating in the gardens there when he saw Gurdjieff strolling. He rushed up to Gurdjieff in excitement and said, "
Master! Master! I have great news! I have given up smoking!" Gurdjieff complimented and commended the man on his achievement and then reached into his shirt pocket, withdrew a pack of cigarettes and offered the man a cigarette. The American declined, repeating what he'd said, "
No, I have given up smoking!"
"I know. I heard you. Now, please, have a cigarette. "
"No. I mean it. I've given up smoking."
Withdrawing a cigarette for himself, Gurdjieff lit the cigarette and, again, shook the pack in the American's direction saying, "I am sure you do mean it. Here, have a cigarette."
"Oh! I know. I get it now. You're just testing me to see if I really mean it. No thank you. I'm not going to smoke any more ever."
"No, this is not a test, Do please have a cigarette."
Now getting frustrated, the American raised the volume of his voice in protest, "No! I am NOT going to have another cigarette!"
I am very pleased you are no longer in bondage to smoking.
Now be free of the bondage of not-smoking.
The point of that absurd story being it does us no good to exchange one stronghold for another, even if the exchange is in favor of the antithesis of whatever we've abandoned. Freedom in Christ is not anti-Calvinist any more than it is anti-Arminian
(nor anti-Catholic versus anti-Protestant, etc., etc.).
So please remember
my handle and don't repeat that nonsense about you not being beholding to x. y. or z. God brought the messages of others into our lives for a reason and to deny the providence of our own lives is to deny God and
that is not how you actually live your life,
@MTMattie (at least not as I have observed from your posts). That can be posted to others, but not me. You have viewpoints that are your own, but they have inescapably been informed - either in thesis or in antithesis - by others who've walked the Christian path before us. Just post your views about the subject being discussed without all the unnecessary reference to what you
do not do.
That I can engage.