In John 3:5, Jesus said born of water and the Spirit. Jesus
did not say born of baptism and the Spirit so Jesus was not saying unless one is water baptized; he cannot enter the kingdom of God. In
John 3:18, Jesus said - He who
believes in Him is not condemned; but he who (is not water baptized? - NO)
does not believe is condemned already, because he has not (been water baptized? - NO)
because he has not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.
In the very next chapter, Jesus mentions "living water" in
John 4:10,
14 and He
connects living water with eternal life in
John 4:14. Also, in
John 7:38-39, we read - "He who believes in Me, as the Scripture has said, out of his heart will flow rivers of living water. But this He spoke
concerning the Spirit. The Holy Spirit is the
source of living water and spiritual cleansing.
If "water" is arbitrarily defined as baptism, then we could just as justifiably say, "Out of his heart will flow rivers of living baptism" in
John 7:38. If this sounds ridiculous, it is no more so than the idea that water baptism is the source or the means of becoming born again. So, to automatically read "baptism" into
John 3:5 simply because it mentions "water" is
unwarranted.
Also "water" is used in the Bible as an
emblem of the word of God, and in such uses it is
associated with cleansing or washing. (
John 15:3;
Ephesians 5:26) When we are born again, the Holy Spirit begets new life, so that we are said to become "partakers of the divine nature." (
2 Peter 1:4) The new birth is brought to pass through "incorruptible seed, by the word of God, which lives and abides forever" (1
Peter 1:23) and the Holy Spirit accomplishes the miracle of regeneration. (
Titus 3:5)