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● Eph 4:32 . . Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, jus
as in Christ God forgave you.
"as in Christ God forgave you" speaks of generosity rather than a merit award.
(John 3:16-18, John 5:24, & Eph 2:5-10)
Within the context of the letter Paul wrote and sent to the Christians residing in the
ancient city of Ephesus; the objects "one another" and "each other" are exclusive;
viz: the comments refer only to Christ's fraternity of Bible believing Christians
rather than the world at large. So if you're unwilling to be kind and compassionate
to outsiders; at least be so with people at church so as to help prevent church from
becoming a hostile worship environment.
The Greek word translated "kind" basically means employed; viz: useful. It's found
in only seven places in the New Testament, and without exception implies being
beneficial to others for their own good rather than using people to benefit one's
own self.
It used to be that Boy Scouts and Cub Scouts were trained to be useful to others as
just simply a matter of good deeds and good citizenship. I don't know, maybe they
still are; but I've known lots of churchians who were totally useless to others
because they're infected with an ugly spirit of conceit, rivalry, and indifference. Far
from being kind and compassionate; those Christians are actually sociopathic and
don't even know it.
The word for "compassionate" basically means sympathetic.
Webster's defines sympathy as: 1) an affinity, association, or relationship between
persons or things wherein whatever affects one similarly affects the other, 2)
inclination to think or feel alike: emotional or intellectual accord, 3) feeling of
loyalty: tendency to favor or support, 4) the act, or capacity, of entering into or
sharing the feelings or interests of another, 5) sensitivity, and 6) heart; as in "have
a heart".
The word translated "forgiving" basically means to grant as a favor; viz:
gratuitously, i.e. courtesy.
Webster's defines gratuitous as: 1) given unearned or without recompense, 2) not
involving a return benefit or compensation or consideration, 3) costing nothing:
free, 4) not called for by the circumstances: unwarranted, 5) complimentary, 6)
gratis, and 7) voluntary. In other words; gratuitous seeks no reciprocation; it
never says "you owe me one"
Sailors are oft heard to say that the sea is very unforgiving: meaning it allows no
room for error or weakness. Christians ought not be like the sea. We ought to be
the most forgiving people on the planet; and not because we expect others to
reciprocate; but just because we enjoy being gratuitous. For some Christians
though, courtesy is an effort.
Eph 4:31-32 isn't easy. What we're looking at there is not just good citizenship; no,
what we're looking at is something divine in both its nature and its behavior.
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