Olde Tymer
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● Cor 7:5 . . Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time,
that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that
Satan not tempt you by means of your lack of self control.
I think it goes without saying that spouses have an inalienable right to expect their
need for companionship to be satisfied in marriage; and if one, or both, is feeling
lonely and marginalized at home, then they will be vulnerable outside the home
when someone comes along with whom they click.
I heard a story some time ago about a rather conniving Christian woman who
wanted a divorce from her Christian husband; but seeing as how God only allows
death or adultery to dissolve the marital bond; she deliberately began shunning her
husband in order to force him to think about finding an alternative; and when he
did; she proceeded to divorce him on the grounds of unfaithfulness. That way, in
her mind's eye, she was the victim and he the villain. (chuckle) What people won't
do to circumvent the laws of God.
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● Cor 7:5 . . Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time,
that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that
Satan not tempt you by means of your lack of self control.
I think it goes without saying that spouses have an inalienable right to expect their
need for companionship to be satisfied in marriage; and if one, or both, is feeling
lonely and marginalized at home, then they will be vulnerable outside the home
when someone comes along with whom they click.
I heard a story some time ago about a rather conniving Christian woman who
wanted a divorce from her Christian husband; but seeing as how God only allows
death or adultery to dissolve the marital bond; she deliberately began shunning her
husband in order to force him to think about finding an alternative; and when he
did; she proceeded to divorce him on the grounds of unfaithfulness. That way, in
her mind's eye, she was the victim and he the villain. (chuckle) What people won't
do to circumvent the laws of God.
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