I'm 15, don't believe in modern religion, prefer 1 on 1 connection w/ God. Does anyone believe this to be the wrong/right mindset? Let me know.

Allow me to explain my situation. When recently asked by a friend if I was religious, I had to pause and really think about what I truly believed. This was my response...

I reject organized religion entirely; not out of disdain for faith itself, but because I see it as a fundamentally flawed human enterprise. Religions, in their institutionalized forms, often distort the divine essence they claim to represent. They impose rigid doctrines, hierarchies, and rituals that reduce the infinite to the finite, confining God within human-made boxes: specific names, genders, dogmas, and exclusive paths to truth. Every major faith, Judaism, Christianity, Islam, Buddhism, and beyond, grapples with the same transcendent reality, yet each overlays its own cultural, political, and historical interpretations, often leading to division rather than unity.

I believe in God as the singular, boundless divine source, the Creator who knows every detail of existence, past, present, and future, and who actively sustains the universe. This is not some distant, impersonal force; God is personal, responsive, and intimately involved in our lives, answering prayers, guiding through experience, and intervening when called upon. I maintain a direct, unmediated relationship with this divine presence through prayer, reflection, and the raw evidence of the world around us. The beauty, order, and mystery of creation scream of purposeful design.

Morality, too, is not a cultural invention or fleeting social trend. It is objective, rooted in divine order: there is real right and wrong, eternal consequences, and an afterlife where our choices matter, whether that manifests as heaven, hell, or some form of ultimate justice. I hold these truths without needing intermediaries, clergy, or sacred texts to mediate them.

What I reject is the baggage: the power struggles, fear-mongering, tribalism, and hypocrisy that organized religion so often breeds. Far from drawing people closer to God, it frequently alienates them, fueling stereotypes, conflicts, and cliques that turn what should be a unifying truth into a battleground of "us versus them."

You can call me a deist, a "spiritual but not religious" seeker, or simply a believer in a personal God without the institutional overlay. Labels don't matter to me; they often become another box. What matters is the reality: God exists, God hears us, God helps us, morality is absolute, and the afterlife holds real accountability. Organized religion, in its current state, has largely failed to reflect that reality and has instead created confusion and separation where unity and clarity were intended.

That was my response it was originally a quick 5ish-minute rant, but I edited a few things to not sound like a total moron, im very open to everything I'm still young and learning, and if you believe I need to be corrected your welcome to try, dont get offended by my response if it wasnt what you were looking for, though haha.
 
I think some people here could be of special assistance to you -- such as the admin, civic, free_in_christ. This broader forum is often more elaborate debate and not a good sense of Christian information. It is hopeful that you have a bible, especially the New Testament, but of course it is online too.
Let me first share this incident at the start of Christianity -- an encounter with non-Jew
Acts 17:22–27 (ESV)
22So Paul, standing in the midst of the Areopagus, said: “Men of Athens, I perceive that in every way you are very religious.
23For as I passed along and observed the objects of your worship, I found also an altar with this inscription: ‘To the unknown god.’ What therefore you worship as unknown, this I proclaim to you.
24The God who made the world and everything in it, being Lord of heaven and earth, does not live in temples made by man,
25nor is he served by human hands, as though he needed anything, since he himself gives to all mankind life and breath and everything.
26And he made from one man every nation of mankind to live on all the face of the earth, having determined allotted periods and the boundaries of their dwelling place,
27that they should seek God, and perhaps feel their way toward him and find him. Yet he is actually not far from each one of us,

We proclaim the God of Israel to be what these men of Athens had not recognized. The knowledge of God the Father and Jesus, the Son of God, are described in the New Testament and Jesus came according to prophecy --which is unique among all the so-called religions.
After sharing that, it helps to mention that many Christians have virtually all the complaints and concerns that you have shared, except a rejection of the basic promises of relationship with God through him. I would suggest to listen to the narrow path radio and ask questions there. https://thenarrowpath.com/radio_program.php -- Steve Gregg teaches scripture but you have no obligation with him to be in a church -- only to raise questions.
You can also start reading through the Gospel of John even without much comprehension at first. I might share some testimony. There might be a good spot to share your concerns and get more conventional answers.
 
@Niacaris First off, welcome to BAM! I hope you enjoy it here :)

Secondly, wow... you're one smart young man, 100% on point! It's all about a personal relationship w/ God, not a religion.
Amen! Jesus Christ came to put an end to religion, yet Christianity was inevitably dragged into it.

I'd suggest to continue avoiding organized religion entirely, & reading God's Word for yourself. I read the Bible for myself, was never part of any denomination, & didn't grow up in a religious family. Approaching the Bible w/ a fresh set of eyes, I found, works in our favor.
 
I think some people here could be of special assistance to you -- such as the admin, civic, free_in_christ. This broader forum is often more elaborate debate and not a good sense of Christian information. It is hopeful that you have a bible, especially the New Testament, but of course it is online too.
Let me first share this incident at the start of Christianity -- an encounter with non-Jew
Acts 17:22–27 (ESV)
22So Paul, standing in the midst of the Areopagus, said: “Men of Athens, I perceive that in every way you are very religious.
23For as I passed along and observed the objects of your worship, I found also an altar with this inscription: ‘To the unknown god.’ What therefore you worship as unknown, this I proclaim to you.
24The God who made the world and everything in it, being Lord of heaven and earth, does not live in temples made by man,
25nor is he served by human hands, as though he needed anything, since he himself gives to all mankind life and breath and everything.
26And he made from one man every nation of mankind to live on all the face of the earth, having determined allotted periods and the boundaries of their dwelling place,
27that they should seek God, and perhaps feel their way toward him and find him. Yet he is actually not far from each one of us,

We proclaim the God of Israel to be what these men of Athens had not recognized. The knowledge of God the Father and Jesus, the Son of God, are described in the New Testament and Jesus came according to prophecy --which is unique among all the so-called religions.
After sharing that, it helps to mention that many Christians have virtually all the complaints and concerns that you have shared, except a rejection of the basic promises of relationship with God through him. I would suggest to listen to the narrow path radio and ask questions there. https://thenarrowpath.com/radio_program.php -- Steve Gregg teaches scripture but you have no obligation with him to be in a church -- only to raise questions.
You can also start reading through the Gospel of John even without much comprehension at first. I might share some testimony. There might be a good spot to share your concerns and get more conventional answers.
I've been recommended John a couple of times now, so I study through it and see where that takes me. Thank you very much.
 
I've been recommended John a couple of times now, so I study through it and see where that takes me. Thank you very much.
I still suggest to start with John. If you are more adventurous, read from Matthew through to the end.

I had tried to read Matthew when I was a teenager. This was too confusing (or boring?) with the genealogies and I gave up. Oh well! But in college, I was given a Gideon New Testament -- those guys who simply hand out bibles at events and malls. That led me to belief even though I did not understand much of what I read. That's my simple story.
 
I've been recommended John a couple of times now, so I study through it and see where that takes me. Thank you very much.
Translation can make all the difference … not to the truth in the message, but different people just find different translations harder or easier to understand. Obviously, start with whatever translation (KJV, NKJV, NIV, ESV, NLT … whatever) you have at hand. If you find it hard to read, try another translation and see if it is better for you.

Here is a link to “Blue Letter Bible: Gospel of John [NLT]”. NLT is one of the easiest to read and the Blue Letter Bible lets you click the box and change the translation to try out a bunch of others until you find one you like best. They all tell the same TRUTH, they just use different phrases [since the original is in Greek].
 
Translation can make all the difference … not to the truth in the message, but different people just find different translations harder or easier to understand. Obviously, start with whatever translation (KJV, NKJV, NIV, ESV, NLT … whatever) you have at hand. If you find it hard to read, try another translation and see if it is better for you.

Here is a link to “Blue Letter Bible: Gospel of John [NLT]”. NLT is one of the easiest to read and the Blue Letter Bible lets you click the box and change the translation to try out a bunch of others until you find one you like best. They all tell the same TRUTH, they just use different phrases [since the original is in Greek].
Always been a fan of ESV and NASB. I'll have to check out NLT tho
 
Always been a fan of ESV and NASB. I'll have to check out NLT tho
I see you are not coming in new to the look as scripture. I'm not sure what you have read so far. My recommendations then would be about the same. Revelation though can be excluded since the symbolism is rather difficult. Also, the interpretations around here can vary quite a bit, so people are still wrestling with ideas where some ideas are generally settled but still disputed by some. There also are passages not clearly understood. It is because there are disputes that I suggest instead to go to the Narrow Path radio to ask questions. Steve does well to address concepts without forcing to any single view of the views common in Christianity.
 
Always been a fan of ESV and NASB. I'll have to check out NLT tho
ESV and NASB both lean towards a more “literal” (word for word) translation that preserves the original better, but can have more complex sentence structures. [I like those translations for my personal reading, too.]
NLT is a less literal (thought for thought) translation that tries to say the same thing in more modern sentence structure and words. [some people find it easier to understand].
 
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